Re: 16/05/12
Posted: 20 May 2012, 15:21
that's because Chris & I are friends off the forum, away from the tube, and hence make a good team.
using your logic, i could say that Chris is 'piggybacking' me, because he is not fit enough to run it in a record time himself, and so he's getting me to do all his hard work for him. but again - it's not like that, it's about the two of us working together to make the thing as a whole work, as a team.
even then, Chris may come up with a route, but that doesn't stop me suggesting things to him and having ideas. or he'll suggest something new to me, and i'll then go and run it out a few times and see if it's workable or not. you see? teamwork, it's a nice thing.
therefore, someone just asking to hop on board with you doesn't work as you've got to have a feel/knowledge of the person before you commit yourself to spending all day with them. Adham was not the first person person on this forum to ask if they could join me, but when he did it was what i knew of him off forum that easily led me to say 'No, thanks', something which is my prerogative and not something for me to be analysed forever with, i feel.
although clearly i've been going about this all the wrong way. it looks as if i should be worried about if i'm going to get a blowjob or not. maybe that's where i'm going wrong?
using your logic, i could say that Chris is 'piggybacking' me, because he is not fit enough to run it in a record time himself, and so he's getting me to do all his hard work for him. but again - it's not like that, it's about the two of us working together to make the thing as a whole work, as a team.
even then, Chris may come up with a route, but that doesn't stop me suggesting things to him and having ideas. or he'll suggest something new to me, and i'll then go and run it out a few times and see if it's workable or not. you see? teamwork, it's a nice thing.
therefore, someone just asking to hop on board with you doesn't work as you've got to have a feel/knowledge of the person before you commit yourself to spending all day with them. Adham was not the first person person on this forum to ask if they could join me, but when he did it was what i knew of him off forum that easily led me to say 'No, thanks', something which is my prerogative and not something for me to be analysed forever with, i feel.
although clearly i've been going about this all the wrong way. it looks as if i should be worried about if i'm going to get a blowjob or not. maybe that's where i'm going wrong?
